Lesbian Visibility Week: What does your star sign say about your love language?

“I am in tune with our unique strength and challenges, and how astrology can be used to help navigate the journey,” says lesbian astrologer Jill Dearman, speaking just before Lesbian Visibility Week 2025.Her clients come in “all stripes”, she tells PinkNews. “At the beginning of this year, based on the major astrological changes that are resounding across the world, I created a process called astrology-based counselling or ABC,” she adds.

Dearman, who is working on a new book, is the author of Queer Astrology for Men and Queer Astrology for Women. She has also written three LGBTQ+ crime novels, including Jazzed, a gender-swapped take on the infamous Leopold and Loeb murder case from 100 years ago.Queer astrologer Jill Dearman.



(Supplied) To mark Lesbian Visibility Week, which runs from 21 to 27 April, the professor of writing in liberal studies at New York University shares insights into what defines lesbian love language, and how to charm women according to their star sign. googletag.cmd.

push(function() { googletag.display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_1'); }); Aries 21 March to 20 April Aries lesbians enjoy a challenge. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)According to Dearman’s research, an Aries lesbian will be turned on most by competition – think arm wrestling.

In addition, her love language will respond well to (gentle) hair pulling. “Her erogenous zone is her head and she’s ruled by Mars the fighter,” Dearman says. “The Aries babe enjoys a challenge, so let her do the seducing.

The more independent you are, the better. If you are the centre of attention, that’s the best approach of all. “Try spending time with her in groups.

Grace her with a wink or a random touch, or a taste of scintillating conversation, then spend quality time with others. She will c**k-block her way into your inner circle and make sure she’s the one to take you home.” googletag.

cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_2'); }); Taurus21 April to 20 May Food rather than music, it seems, is the food of love – especially spuds.

(Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)Dearman has observed Taurus lesbians to be somewhat obsessed with potatoes. She says her research revealed that they love “neck rubs because that’s her erogenous zone” and “potato pancakes because even the word potato makes her come.”The writer goes on to say: “She hates to rush, so plan a nice luxurious dinner out, or invite her over for a meal.

She is a music aficionado so lure her with the natural aphrodisiac of a great playlist. “When you’re feeling like it’s the moment, no need to make a game of it. She’s direct and responds to pleasure with a big yes: just make sure your style is sensual as she enjoys every form of touch.

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display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_3'); }); Gemini 21 May to 21 June Je t’aime might sound cliched but a foreign tongue is appreciated. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)“Sexy talk in a foreign language” reigns supreme in the love language of Gemini lesbians, according to Dearman, who says this is because “her sign rules communication,” meaning she also loves crossword puzzles. “Ms Gemini requires mental stimulation before physical.

Hit up a cultural event that sparks brainy chat and make sure to allow plenty of room for laughter and witty repartee. A spin on the dance floor will also work a treat. googletag.

cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_4'); }); Cancer 22 June to 22 July Home in on a Cancerian.

(Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)“Home is the domain” for Cancerians, meaning her love languages include “snuggling on the coach” and “bubble baths with a happy ending,” Dearman says, adding: “She’s a water sign, after all, so what better way to get dirty? “She responds well to the atmosphere of a confessional. Tell her a secret, confide in her.”Cancerians will be “bold with desire” for “all expressions of intimacy, from showing her a spot on your hand where you have a scar from a childhood fall to whispering your secret dream in her ear”.

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display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_5'); }); Leo23 July to 22 August Leos love luxury. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)Leo star signs, according to Dearman, are big on “words of adoration because worship is something she cannot get enough of”. They are also fond of “extravagant evenings out because luxury makes her a sexy beast”.

Should seducing a Leo be on your mind, Dearman suggests: “Say her name and the word ‘you’ as much as possible, and you will probably be halfway there. “Plan something elegant and treat her like royalty, all the while keeping it classy with discussions of art, culture and world events.“Wait for the ideal movie moment to make your move, whether it’s when the snow begins to fall or a perfect song begins to play.

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display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_6'); }); Virgo 23 August to 22 September You can give a lesbian twist to that famous scene in Ghost. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)“Getting it on in nature,” is a big yes for Virgo lesbians, who are the “goddesses of earth sign delights” according to Dearman. Outside nature, they enjoy “role play because just the thought of home repairs and tidying up makes her scream”.

On seducing a Virgo, Dearman suggests doing an activity she enjoys together, such as pottery. “She loves being appreciated so if you pay attention to her delicious details, she will take notice. She moves at a chill pace, but once the lovin’ begins she is remarkably uninhibited and loves to lust you.

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display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_7'); }); Libra23 September to 22 October You can flirt with success. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)“Libras love bling,” so showering her with gifts of jewellery should pay dividends. And “flirtation with a capital F” will often lead “slowly and luxuriously to something else that begins with F!”If you’re looking to seduce a Libra, Dearman notes that they have “a gifted eye for aesthetics”, meaning “an art exhibition is a great place to start”.

Romantic and playful gestures will also be appreciated. “Holding hands is the simplest way to her heart, as is dressing up for a date. When she starts to look at you with moony eyes, you can make your move.

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display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_8'); }); Scorpio23 October to 21 November You’ll need to be clued up to win over a Scorpio. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)A Scorpio will respond well to “eye contact because she yearns for deep soul connection, and is a master hypnotist,” Dearman shares. Scorpios are fond of “building a mystery because she loves to follow clues all the way to Pandora’s Box,” but don’t “give up the keys to the secret lock too soon”.

Seducing a Scorpio is all about making her “feel understood”. As a great listener, she appreciates when her partner listens too. “Whatever your passion is, let it shine.

She digs people with depth, so the more layers you possess, the stronger the chance you will lay her.” Dearman adds that it’s best to keep seduction to a “game of cat and mouse,” while following “her vibe” because she can have a tendency to be moody. “If it’s playful, keep it light.

If it’s intense, stare meaningfully and don’t look away even if you have an itch.” googletag.cmd.

push(function() { googletag.display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_9'); }); Sagittarius 22 November to 22 DecemberYou’ll have to be a good sport to succeed here. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)“Doing it in public, because she loves being shameless and can’t stand waiting,” is what Dearman suggests to win the heart of a Sagittarian, who will enjoy sports and adventure ahead of getting down and dirty in the bedroom.

“Beguile her with travel stories and let her play raconteur as well. She is always dreaming about foreign lands, so try foods neither of you has tasted, and customs that are new to you both. When the clothes come off, let the athlete in you take charge.

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display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_10'); }); Capricorn 23 December to 19 January Role play could lead to a roll in the hay. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)“Role-playing where you’re the boss” should entice a Capricorn. “After all, she’s used to giving orders by day and loves to take them from you at night,” Dearman says.

Financial planning is also big on the mind of a Capricorn, who “doesn’t suffer fools”. But when it comes to seducing her, keeping it simple is key. A “hike or whatever feels natural and authentic” will work well, while minding your manners if invited as a plus-one is a must.

“Show some political acumen. If none of this screams ‘sexy,’ don’t worry. Once things get physical, she is a real animal who prays to the goddess of horniness, and preys upon your attraction to her in the most rambunctious ways.

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display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_11'); }); Aquarius 20 January to 18 February Lead with your causes or you’ll be a lost cause. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)Aquarius lesbians usually like to go “beyond the physical,” meaning they will enjoy “sexting or anything involving gaming, virtual reality or AI”, and “threesome, foursomes and more-somes,” will also appeal.Making the world a better place is also a top priority, “so lead with your causes”, Dearman advises.

“A passion for politics, social justice and all the rest will make you sparkle in her eyes. She may not be a natural flirt but she appreciates your surprise touches. Just keep up with her mind, and be “open to whatever kink suits her mood”.

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display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_12'); }); Pisces 19 February to 20 March Dive in but always be romantic. (Vadim Ezhov/Getty Images)Stripping paired with poetry will have you on the same hymn sheet as this lesbian who has been observed by Dearman to be “lyrical and romantic”. But she is also fond of “dive-bar make-outs” and “bathroom-stall quickies” because she loves a touch of sleaze.

“If she treats you like a wild foreign dish, let her taste your mystery. If she’s longing for a strong shoulder, be like a willow tree. But whatever you do make sure the right soundtrack is playing.

She responds to mood music, as much as she does to signs from the universe. “She will fall into your arms and do anything for you (in bed) as long as you don’t burst her romantic bubble.” googletag.

cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('Desktop_Pagicle_Content_13'); }); Last year, queer astrologer Deborah Roe, who believes the stars dictate our identities, shared an insight into what each star sign says about the type of LGBTQ+ person you are.

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