Miss Manners: Why do some people assume that because I’m in a wheelchair I can’t speak for myself?

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am permanently in a wheelchair as a result of an injury. There is nothing wrong with my mind. Many people assume I cannot speak for myself, and some move my wheelchair in directions I do not wish to go.

What can I say to these strangers to convey that I am capable of speaking for myself and that I do not care to be treated like a piece of furniture? Some people are considerate -- holding doors for me and asking if I would like help. Others are quite rude. GENTLE READER: “Excuse me, but I am right here” to those who talk above you.



And “STOP!” to anyone rude enough to move your wheelchair without your permission. (Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.

com ; to her email, [email protected] ; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.

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